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  • Writer's pictureAdaeze Chiwoko

Emotionally Re-Connect With Your Spouse with these 14 Questions

When was the last time you and your partner had a really deep conversation about your true thoughts, feelings, desires and dreams? Oftentimes, the hamster wheel of life can cause couples to lose touch with each other and miss the changes, growth, and expansion of the other person. It can feel like you don't know each other anymore or that you have drifted apart.

The truth is, this can be remedied by a commitment to reconnect, and the best starting place is a no-holds-barred, completely honest, and vulnerable conversation where each person is allowed to express their true feelings and thoughts without fear of judgment or shame.

In this conversation, you will practice emotional courage by sharing your feelings with your partner and accepting their feelings as valid and important.

To get you started I have a list of questions that will encourage an open conversation. Go through the questions allowing each person to open up and share as freely as they would like.

14 questions to emotionally connect with your spouse

14 Questions To Emotionally Connect With Your Spouse

  • When are you your happiest?

  • What aspect of your present life causes you embarrassment?

  • What is the greatest emotional pain you have experienced?

  • What makes you feel confident?

  • What do you need more of in this relationship?

  • What is your greatest regret?

  • What are you most proud of in your life?

  • If you could be anywhere in the world right now where would you be?

  • What turns you on sexually?

  • What's your deepest sexual fantasy?

  • What would be your ideal lifestyle?

  • What is the one thing that scares you in this whole world?

  • What is one thing that you are not good at but you wish you were?

  • What aspects of your body are you most insecure about?

Remember that this isn't an interview. There are no right or wrong answers. There is only the individual's truth. Be prepared for that truth to not mirror yours or even be what you like. The beauty of love is acceptance.


Feel like you and your partner have fallen out of love and worried that this may be the end of your relationship? What if I told you that you may have only fallen out of passion and that there is a huge difference between the two. Passion can always be re-ignited! What to know more? Watch this


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